A Caregiving Journey: D'Asia Cheeks' Story

At Touching Hearts at Home of Dayton and Springfield, every caregiver brings a unique blend of heart, resilience, and purpose to their role. For D’Asia Cheeks, caregiving began as a second job but quickly became a meaningful calling that reshaped her life and her perspective on aging, empathy, and the power of human connection. Her story highlights what it means to offer compassionate senior care and the ways in which caregivers can profoundly impact lives through everyday interactions.

Inspired by Family and the Power of Showing Up

D’Asia’s path into the home care field was rooted in a deep appreciation for the importance of family support. Growing up in a close-knit family, she recognized early on how critical it is to feel seen, valued, and supported by the people around you.

“What inspired me was knowing that sometimes, you may be the only help they have if family isn’t involved,” she shares.

This realization became a driving force behind her decision to pursue caregiving. While she originally took on the role as a part-time job during college, it didn’t take long for D’Asia to fall in love with the work. Seeing firsthand the impact of a kind word, a warm meal, or a moment of companionship made her realize that this wasn’t just a job—it was a purpose. She strives to ensure that no client ever feels undeserving of care, and that they always feel respected and supported.

A Memorable Bond Built on Faith and Words

One of D’Asia’s most memorable and impactful experiences as a caregiver involved a client who had endured a significant amount of trauma throughout her life. Despite her pain, the client found solace in spirituality and reading, often surrounding herself with books filled with uplifting messages and religious inspiration.

“We read together and spoke to each other about those messages,” D’Asia recalls.

Recognizing the importance of those positive reinforcements, D’Asia began leaving handwritten messages and Bible verses on the client’s whiteboard. This simple act of kindness created a daily ritual that provided encouragement and helped build a deep connection between them. These shared moments of faith and conversation not only brought comfort to the client but reminded D’Asia of the incredible healing power that words can hold in the caregiving journey.

Lessons in Empathy and Meeting People Where They Are

One of the greatest lessons D’Asia has learned in her time as a caregiver is the importance of meeting seniors where they are—especially in terms of their cognitive and emotional well-being.

“Patience and understanding are essential, as well as being empathetic,” she emphasizes.

For many older adults, maintaining a sense of independence—no matter how small—can significantly boost their self-worth and mental health. D’Asia understands that caregivers must strike a delicate balance between offering help and empowering their clients to do what they can on their own. Whether it’s letting a client button their own shirt, prepare part of a meal, or simply take their time with a task, supporting their independence is vital to preserving dignity.

Bringing Authenticity into Every Visit

For D’Asia, authenticity is key to building meaningful relationships. She approaches every visit with warmth and transparency, allowing her true personality to shine through.

“Honestly, I get to be myself around clients and their families. It makes the experience more genuine and meaningful.”

This openness fosters trust and encourages clients and their families to feel comfortable in her presence. Rather than creating a transactional dynamic, D’Asia works to establish a friendship-like connection rooted in respect and care. It’s this level of comfort that often leads to open communication, deeper emotional bonds, and a more positive care experience overall.

Navigating Challenges with Support and Grace

Caregiving is deeply rewarding, but like any profession centered around human connection, it comes with its challenges. For D’Asia, one of the biggest hurdles has been navigating the emotional dynamics that can arise—especially when a client has a significant other who may feel uncertain or uneasy about the caregiving process.

“There are many people coming and going in their lives—it can be overwhelming. Support from our staff has offered peace of mind and helped make adjustments.”

To overcome these moments, D’Asia focuses on empathy and open communication. She leans on the support of her team at Touching Hearts at Home, who offer resources and reassurance. Together, they create personalized care strategies that balance the needs of the client with the emotional realities of their family dynamics, ensuring a peaceful and respectful environment for everyone involved.

When You Know You’ve Made a Difference

There are many moments in caregiving that remind you why you do the work. For D’Asia, one client in particular stands out—a man who was initially quiet and emotionally guarded. Over time, with gentle persistence and kindness, she was able to build a rapport that blossomed into a trusting, supportive relationship.

“Eventually, he allowed me to do more tasks with him, and our conversations felt effortless,” she says.

She later learned from his wife how much her presence had helped him emotionally and how he looked forward to her visits. Knowing that she had provided comfort, stability, and even friendship, was a powerful affirmation of the value of home care.

Advice for Future Caregivers

If you’re considering a career in home care, D’Asia encourages you to reflect on your intentions and mindset before stepping into someone’s home.

“Always check yourself before entering their home. They look forward to seeing you—and they’re so thankful for even the littlest things.”

It’s a role that demands empathy, presence, and a deep sense of responsibility. The impact of even the simplest tasks—a walk, a conversation, a clean room—can make a huge difference in a senior’s day. Home caregivers have the unique opportunity to not only assist, but to uplift.

A New Perspective on Aging

Caregiving has given D’Asia a newfound respect for the aging process. Being on the front lines of senior care has opened her eyes to the emotional and physical realities many older adults face.

“One day, this could be you needing help from someone you’ve never met. I would want someone to treat me with respect, dignity, and compassion—as I do for them.”

She now views aging as a journey that should be honored and supported with love. Caregivers are often the bridge between vulnerability and dignity, and D’Asia is proud to serve as that bridge for her clients.

The Undervalued Gift of Home Care

Home care is often overlooked or underappreciated, but for D’Asia, it’s a sacred responsibility and an incredible privilege.

“You’re constantly immersing yourself in their cultures and livelihoods. Attitude shapes approach—so every time I’m with a client, I hope they remember my face or my name and want to see me again.”

She believes home care gives clients the ability to stay in their homes with comfort and pride. It also gives caregivers the chance to be part of something deeply human—helping others age with grace, independence, and love.

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