Caregiving Journey: Lynne’s Story

Kindness, Faith, and the Power of Simply Being There

In just five short months, Lynne Fisher has already made an incredible impact at Touching Hearts at Home. Her calm presence, listening ear, and heart for service have become a source of comfort to the clients she cares for — many of whom have come to rely on her not just for support, but for connection.

“I have a heart for people,” Lynne shares. “Caregiving is my way of sharing kindness with vulnerable, older adults. I can help with their physical needs, but also be there emotionally. And in return, I receive so much just by hearing their unique stories.”

It’s this exchange — rooted in respect, presence, and shared humanity — that makes Lynne’s caregiving so special.

Faith, Friendship, and Shared Moments

One of Lynne’s most meaningful experiences has been with a couple she visits regularly. Together, they share their faith, watching daily Mass on TV and reciting prayers together.

“Having been raised Catholic, I know all the prayers,” she says. “It’s nostalgic — and special — to say them together.”

These shared rituals create a sacred rhythm in their day and a deeply personal connection that transcends caregiving. For Lynne, it’s not just about routine — it’s about ritual and relationship.

Listening Beyond Words

When asked what she’s learned from working with seniors, Lynne says the most important lesson is this:

“Pay attention — not just to what’s spoken, but to what’s unspoken.”

It’s a wisdom that comes with experience and empathy. Lynne understands that sadness, fear, and loneliness don’t always come with words. Sometimes the best thing she can do is give her client space, offer quiet support, and not try to “talk it away.”

Patience, she says, is essential. And not just in how she responds — but in how she moves through the day.

Respect, Dignity, and a Gentle Approach

Lynne is intentional about the energy she brings into each home. She listens closely, offers help eagerly, and strives to ensure her clients always feel respected and dignified.

That includes understanding when someone needs space — and being able to adjust her care accordingly.

“Sometimes I’m not sure if I should keep a conversation going or give a little room,” she explains. “So I pay attention to their cues. If they need space, I’ll tidy another room and come back to check in. It’s about making sure they feel safe and not overwhelmed.”

The Joy of Making a Difference

Lynne recalls a moment when a client thanked her profusely, saying she wouldn’t have made it through a difficult day without her.

“It meant so much,” she reflects. “That’s when I knew I had made a difference — just by being there.”

It’s a quiet but powerful truth in caregiving: sometimes the most meaningful impact comes simply from showing up with consistency and compassion.

Advice for Future Caregivers

Lynne’s advice for anyone entering home care is full of grace and good humor:

“It’s very rewarding. But you need patience. Be willing to do what the client needs — with a smile on your face. Move slowly. Be gentle. And most of all, have a sense of humor.”

Because sometimes, laughter is the bridge that brings us all a little closer together.

A New Perspective on Aging

Being a caregiver has shifted Lynne’s view on aging, too.

“I have more empathy now,” she says. “Aging isn’t just about physical change — it’s about loss. Loss of independence, loss of loved ones, and facing your own limitations. It takes strength.”

That perspective has helped her approach her work with deeper understanding and grace — knowing that every interaction, no matter how small, is an opportunity to ease someone’s day.

Why Home Care Matters

Lynne believes home care is far more than housekeeping and help with daily tasks. It’s about presence.

“Your support can be invaluable,” she says. “It’s not just physical care. Kindness and listening can make a huge difference in an older adult’s life.”

And that’s exactly what Lynne offers — kindness, attentiveness, and the steady, soothing gift of someone who genuinely cares.